FROM THE EDITOR'S DESK

‘Till Debt do us Part

“Tis the season when rose petals garnish walkways, diamonds sparkle under the summer sun and sounds of solemn vows echo across the globe. Undoubtedly, on any given minute today, some bride somewhere will be frantically fussing over the choice of strappy sandals or sophisticated stilettos for the journey of her life. Yet in the midst of this most industrious bridal season, thank for inviting us to share with you insights on your most sentimental moment.
     Let me start by extending heartfelt congratulations to those of you who have or will soon be walking down the aisle. Marriage is a spectacular journey and each step must be carefully taken. Therefore, as you put the final touches on your to-do list, please be mindful that your marital expedition only begins on your wedding day.
     As a wedding enthusiast, I completely understand the desperate demands of the day: the delectable cake, the fabulous designer dress, the desire for picture perfection. Though, in spite of my comprehension of this fairytale fantasy, I am obliged to offer you a few words of wisdom.
     Your wedding plans are probably already in full bloom but whether your taste calls for an intimate tropical get-away or an elaborate celebration of regal magnitude, it is essential that you remain realistic. In this era when we are plagued by economic turmoil, you must ensure that your marriage does not start off on the wrong financial foot.
     Of course most of us have long dreamt of a Cinderella wedding complete with white horses, a crystal chariot and an everlasting train; but how feasible is that for you today? Make sure that you are not overindulging in a wedding that may very well spell ‘till DEBT do us part.” Too many couples end up in turmoil because of a financial pitfall incurred on their wedding day.  Although this Day has utmost significance to you, remember it is only one day out of the rest of your lives. If you find that your dream wedding will be too much of a financial burden, then exercise caution now and save the elaborates for later. This decision may ultimately save your marriage and help you to build on a stable foundation. After all, you will have the rest of your lives together to plan champagne celebrations and “caviar” dreams.
     So, as you plan your sizzling summer celebrations, please do make it magical and memorable for you and yours. But, be careful and realistic, for when the festivities are over and the last guest exits, you are the only ones left with the consequences of your decisions. Your wedding day should be a celebration of your love and the marriage of two lives, the fanfare is only an external factor best left to those who can truthfully afford such luxuries.
Best wishes and here’s a toast to you and the promise of a lifetime of marital bliss.